Membership tiers
Where the 37 observed tier members sit $0 73%
$0 Free — the bar only uses public tier patron counts.
$0/mo Free 27 73% of observed tier members
$3/mo Curious 1 2.7% of observed tier members
$9/mo Dabbler 2 5.4% of observed tier members
$19/mo Learner 3 8.1% of observed tier members
$99/mo Librarian 4 10.8% of observed tier members
$199/mo High Achiever 0 0% of observed tier members
What they publish
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Recorded Class: Fluid Dynamics: Exploring Switching Power play isn’t a binary, and most people don’t fit neatly into boxes labeled “sub” or “dom,” “bottom” or “top.” This class examines switch Article Aug 6, 2025 Recorded Class: Ouch! Don't Stop: Exploring Masochism Why choose pain? From saunas and rollercoasters to cathartic flogging and skin staples, people seek out intense sensations for pleasure, exc Image Aug 6, 2025 Looking to learn? You're in the right spot. I'm Dagger DesChiennes (she/her), a full-time kinky professional and educator with 13+ years of experience. I think kink is magic, and I’m h Article Jul 24, 2025 How to redeem your discounts! So you've signed up for a tier that grants you a discount to classes and coaching — fantastic! For upcoming live classes: Please email me at Article Jul 24, 2025 May Ask Me Anything Every month, I open an Ask Me Anything post where followers can ask me whatever they want about kink, play, sexuality, communication, or wha Article May 13 Recorded class: Aromanticism & Petplay — with Delta Diogenes Thank you to Delta for generously offering to include this guest class in the library! What's love got to do with it? Maybe nothing at all! Article May 5 Worksheet: 31 kinky journaling prompts A few weeks ago my boy and I had a crafting date. We picked up notebook paper for the writing pages and colorful paper for the end pages, cu Article April 28 Cheat sheet: Negotiation These are for folks like me who sometimes struggle to remember all your negotiation steps! This is the acronym I use whenever I negotiate, w Article March 23 Recorded class: Fluid Dynamics: Navigating Switching Power play isn’t a binary, and most people don’t fit neatly into boxes labeled “sub” or “dom,” “bottom” or “top.” This class examines switch Article March 16 Recorded class: From Service to Surrender: Submission Beyond Passivity From bootblacks and body worshipers who provide active service, to human pets, dolls, and ashtrays who crave dehumanization, submission can Article March 10 Recorded class: Inflict, Instruct, Indulge: Confidence & Desire for Dominants Dominance isn’t easy; even professionals with decades of experience often struggle to stay connected to their desires and boundaries. This c Article March 9 
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